I wasn't purposely keeping a list but now there are two items.  Two deal breakers.  So, so sad.  I'm not used to being in this spot.  I swear I'm not looking for reasons to cross him off my list.  I don't know where I'm supposed to draw a line in the sand.  What things am I supposed to stand up for and NOT compromise on?  I have always felt the need to be the most important in my guy's world - simply because that's what he is to me.  I wish I didn't give everything like that away right from the start.  I wish I made people "earn" it.  How can I be different now?  I don't want to be.  Yet I can't keep feeling like the world's outcast.